8 Jul 2008

10 dos and don'ts to make romance last

Here are 10 dos and don'ts to make romance last:
1. Do be supportiveIf he likes to watch sports, buy tickets to his favourite team and go tothe game with him. If he likes to play sports, get out and be his numberone cheerleader. Whatever his enthusiasm, learn enough about it toengage him in conversation so you can share this important part of hislife.
2. Don't be clingyThe more freedom you grant him, the more confident you can be that youare his top priority when you do spend time together.
3. Do be surprisingNever be so predictable that you become boring. Stimulate his interestanew with a sexy maneuver in bed. Suggest dinner at an ethnic restauranthe's never sampled before. Try a new activity together.
4. Don't be needyHe's not looking for a mama or a baby, but a partner. You got along justfine, thank you, before he came along. Show him you can take care ofyourself, except when it comes to killing spiders.
5. Do keep it lightDon't pick out the wallpaper and rugs for your dream home until yourdreamboat says, "I do." Nothing scares a guy off faster than the feelingthat he's being rushed into a premature commitment.
6. Don't make it too easyGuys are hunters. Prey that's too available is no challenge and quicklyloses their interest. Be busy sometimes when he calls. Keep flirting.Let him see what an attractive and desirable woman you are.
7. Do give him emotional spaceGuys don't share their problems and feelings in the same way as womendo.When he's ready, he'll talk. When he does, listen. And keep in mind thatsometimes guys just want to vent, and sometimes they want a realsolution to life's little problems.
8. Do continue groomingKeep up your grooming habits ? even after you've seen each other at yourworst. Never go near him unless you're fresh as a daisy.
9. Do feed him wellThe way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So serve him plenty ofwhat he likes. You don't have to make it yourself. Put a fresh sprig ofmint on anything delivered or defrosted and it's likely he'll never knowthe difference ? or care.
10. Do show him you love himEvery day do something that says he's your number one guy. Leave anamorous message on his voice mail. Give him a back rub. Or simply saythanks for something he does consistently so he knows how much youappreciate him.

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